When I read an article last year about the average family spending $350 per child on back to school items, I thought that was insane. I know my kid is young, but her school supply list has never been anywhere close to that amount. We were able to get all the things on the second grade list for under $20.I even have a post about where to get the cheapest school supplies! Why can’t people afford back to school costs?
I assumed these parents must be out of their mind buying new shoes and clothes for their kids. Then, I started thinking about all the other things we spend money on at back to school time. I’m not sure if those are added in with the average cost estimate, but if they were, I can see how it might cost hundreds of dollars to go back to school.
The obvious costs include things like backpacks, pencils, notebooks, all those items in the bins up front at big box stores right now. You also have to dress your child and make sure they have shoes. There are a million ways to save money on these things, like buying used, comparing prices, and making sure you don’t already have the supplies in a box or closet at home. I won’t beat a dead horse with ways to save money on this expense.
Costs You Might Not Think About
As I’ve said many times, there are hidden costs with pubic education. Most can be declined, but that might be psychologically hard on your child. I guess you can always “toughen” them up for life in the future, but I often have a hard time doing that.
Your child will have book fairs, school spirit sticks, or pickles and popcorn Fridays that require money. They also might participate in sports where buying equipment or special shoes are required. There might be clubs they want to join or optional field trips they would like to take. Schools always seem to be doing some sort of fundraiser, and there are pictures and yearbooks. All these costs don’t come at the beginning of the year, but they will pop up before you know it.
I’m not sure why, but many, many people wait until the last few weeks before school starts to go to the dentist, eye doctor, hair stylist, or to have a school physical. While there is no rule that you have to do this stuff right before school, I guess people are so busy enjoying summer that they just forget. Hopefully, you have good insurance, but if not, these expenses can cost hundreds of dollars.
Kids Are Expensive!
So, I guess when you look at all the expenses, it’s easy to see how someone could top $350 or more on back to school. Why does anyone ever have kids? Well, because they are so cute, but that isn’t a good reason to go broke every August!
Planning For Once a Year Expenses
If you write down every back to school expense from the box of crayons to dental x-rays and divide that by 12, that’s how much money you need every month. After you pay necessary bills and hit your savings goals, put this amount in a savings account every month, preferably one at a different bank or in an account that’s harder to access than your main one.
A little planning goes a long way. For a few years now, I have automatically deducted $75 from each paycheck that goes into an online savings account for these and other annual expenses. You almost don’t miss it after the first few drafts, and then money is magically there when you need it.
Give Your Kids the Budget
I love this idea from my fellow bloggers, Shannon from the Heavy Purse and Laurie from the Frugal Farmer. They let their kids plan the budget for certain expenses. By making it their choice and not being the mean parent who always says no, kids learn that they can have what they want, just not all at the same time or every time.
But I Barely Have Enough to Pay the Bills
I know. It’s a new concept. When you live paycheck to paycheck, it’s hard to imagine how to come up with extra money to save for annual expenses. Instead, you just hope something will go your way and the money will be there.
In my experience, waiting for fate to throw you a bone usually results in having a car break down or trip to the emergency room, all during your most expensive month. Instead, try cutting back on things like groceries, entertainment, or fuel costs. If you’ve cut back and still are short, you’ll have to earn more money. Anyone can do it, trust me.
I Have Older Kids and They Are More Expensive
Do you see how I’m cutting down every potential excuse? Yes, I realize older kids cost more money. They could balk at buying used clothes. They probably will want to drive at some point. I’m sure they even might die if they don’t have a smartphone.
You know what, they can have all those things. If you can’t or don’t feel it’s your responsibility to provide them, young people can earn money too. Maybe a few years ago, there weren’t that many jobs, but even in our small town, we’ve seen growth over the last year or so.
We have a new gas station, new hotel, and several new restaurants. All of them have been hiring. If you aren’t 16, you can mow yards, babysit, shovel snow, help seniors with everyday chores. I can come up with probably a million ways kids can get paid if they are respectful, dependable, and talk in complete sentences. Us adults also love to spread the word, so if you are a good babysitter or fence painter, you can bet I’ll tell all my friends about you.
If you make your kids do for themselves from a young age, you are also setting them up for success later in life. I’d rather have a hard talk now than when my kid has $50,000 in student loans and no idea how to make money.
I guess this turned into a pretty long post, but maybe my biggest goal as a blogger is to let people know that you don’t have to follow the trend. If you find yourself with big expenses at this time of year, do something about it. Hopefully, next year, you’ll be easily able to afford back to school expenses!
Do you set aside a monthly amount for annual expenses? Why is back to school such a hard financial time for many families?